Willfully blind Eyes wide open Untroubled Troublemaker
User….
User Generous-spirited Handles the world Used
Secret and dirty….
Secret and dirty Clean and transparent Intimate No relationship
Annoying….
Annoying Lets be Interested Rejecting
Glib / cynical….
Glib / cynical Full of wonder / appreciative Clever / seeing clearly Sappy / sentimental
Timid….
Timid Bold Self-protecting Aggressive
Exploitive / user….
Exploitive / user Nurturing Savvy Pathetic
Grieving….
Grieving Celebrating Facing Imagining
Grandiose gestures….
Grandiose gestures Constant care Pay attention when it is important Insignificant
How To Use a Fourchotomy….
To work with a fourchotomy, you have to begin by being honest with yourself. This means being willing to hear your honest, unfiltered answer in the moment; if you pause …