If our only tool in relationships is entanglement of one form or another, we will never have a healthy relationship. We have to lose our taste for entanglement and stop calling it something else.
|Caring||Indifferent / inhuman|
to all yet
The more sure you are in your head, the more you won’t see what matters. The more you are committed to an idea, the less safe you are for yourself and others.
Superior victim Inferior oppressor Pathetic and unacknowledged Powerful
who we are
down the rabbit hole
mind a friend
Whether you have a “good” system or a “bad” system is off the point. The point is that whatever system you have isn’t you. The best “you” your system can assemble still won’t be you.
|Learner||Fully limited / hit your limit|
|Nothing to offer||Fully formed|
busy and in charge