Alone Smothered Isolated / lonely Together
What Is a Fourchotomy….
The world appears to us as we choose to see it. Most of us see the world in binary terms, framing our experience in pairs of opposites. These pairs of …
Sacrifice yourself….
Sacrifice yourself Preserve yourself Serve the situation Impose yourself on others
Sacrifice….
Sacrifice Hoard / grasp Scapegoat / abandon / discard Cherish / keep
Executioner….
Executioner Life saver Just / decisive Sentimentalist
Flatterer….
Flatterer Independent / stands up for self Appreciative Thankless / dismissive
Nonattached….
Nonattached Enmeshed Apathetic Appropriately engaged
Vindictive / has to have enemies….
Vindictive / has to have enemies Lets things go Holds others accountable Doormat
No core….
No core Inwardly grounded Flexible / adjustable Uncompromising / inflexible
Spiritual….
Spiritual Ordinary Psychotic Sane