Fanatical Reflective Focused / knows path Unresolved
No love / no feeling….
No love / no feeling Intense feeling Protected Dangerous
No love….
No love Love and joy with others Invulnerable Committed to people who don’t love
Accepted member….
Accepted member Outsider / interloper Conformist / forsaking and abandoning self Maintains integrity and sense of self
Humility….
Humility Arrogance Helplessness Agency
Defiant….
Defiant Listening Knows own story Played
Prideful….
Prideful Modest Knows own value Self-negating
Put up with….
Put up with Hold accountable Patient / tolerant / understanding Judgmental / hardhearted / dismissive
Cave in….
Cave in Stand firm / stand up for self Receptive Defiant / obstinate
Flaky….
Flaky Awake / astute Lighthearted / light touch Heavy-handed / downer