Category Archive

Destructive+/keep relationships

No relationships on your terms

Always the same

Change and variety are possible

Hyperfocus as a tool or weapon for stress management (+)

Stressed out and frenzied / overwhelmed / overstimulated

Missing everything / tunnel vision

See everything

Tight / locked in / closed off / only see the top layer (-)

Open and flexible / agile

Get your work done

Get nothing done

Hyperfocus (tight and closed off) (+)

Scattered / distracted

Focus on the wrong things

By chance could hit upon solution

Kindness trumps honesty

Disregard for others feelings

Always lying

Have integrity

Destructive (-)

Encourage harmony and resolution

Control all relationships

Relationships end

Encourage delusion (-)

Express from truth

Fit in by being in harmony with others

Don’t fit in

 Presume to know what is right action; “I’ve got this” (+)

Admit you don’t know what to do, then get appropriate help

Act as lone wolf; dangerous

Encourage safety and harmony through integrity

Check out and hyperfocus (-)

Present

Comfortable bubble

World is dangerous/not nice

Situational awareness (+)

Oblivious

Always on / exhausting

Stress free