“Life will be easier if I don’t practice.” Why will it be easier? If we practice we will have to face what we have. But we don’t want to face …
Your honest answer….
Your honest answer is not the Truth; it is just your “sure” answer.
Grandiose gestures….
Grandiose gestures Constant care Pay attention when it is important Insignificant
How To Use a Fourchotomy….
To work with a fourchotomy, you have to begin by being honest with yourself. This means being willing to hear your honest, unfiltered answer in the moment; if you pause …
Know the difference….
Know the difference between being obedient and throwing yourself under the bus.
Alone….
Alone Smothered Isolated / lonely Together
What Is a Fourchotomy….
The world appears to us as we choose to see it. Most of us see the world in binary terms, framing our experience in pairs of opposites. These pairs of …
Stop looking at others….
Stop looking at others and blaming them for your actions. You have choice. Look at what you bring to the table. If it is inappropriate then change your behavior.
Sacrifice yourself….
Sacrifice yourself Preserve yourself Serve the situation Impose yourself on others
The One True Sacrifice….
The last blog established how “sacrifice” can be a destructive force. From this point of view, sacrifice is a negation; it implies scapegoating, discarding, abandoning. It is not sacrifice, though, …