Advocate for self Cave in Defiant / boorish Assent / acquiesce
Actively Passive….
No matter what we may think, no matter how we appear, we always have agency. If we appear passive, we have chosen that. And we chose passivity for a reason: …
For career victims….
For career victims, feeling misunderstood and persecuted is a badge of virtue. And the worst thing that could happen is for them to be viewed as they actually are, without any …
Misunderstood / persecuted….
Misunderstood / persecuted Seen clearly without embellishment Completely clouded / insane Understood and appreciated
Thanksgiving….
Two years ago, just before Thanksgiving, my mother spoke her final word: “No!” After that, her body relaxed, and the nurse thought she was resting. Actually, her body had ceased …
Competence builds….
Competence builds confidence–not the other way around.
Guiltily responsible….
Guiltily responsible Knowing agent True caregiver Career victim
Knowing What We Bring to the Table….
If we are going to undertake spiritual practice, then we have to know what we bring to the table. Until we are clear about our own systems, we can only …
The career victim uses….
The career victim uses their own potential as bait for the guiltily responsible; the guiltily responsible wants to be the indispensable guide and support for the career victim.
Full of Potential….
Full of potential Lost cause Missing out Nothing to lose