Adored |
Neglected |
Under attack |
Safe |
Loved / cared for…
Loved / cared for |
Not cared for / neglected |
Possessed / smothered / isolated / owned (weapons used to obtain ownership/rope in – flattery, pursuit, adoration, putting on pedestal) |
Free to be |
Frustrated because you have to explain everything to everybody…
Frustrated because you have to explain everything to everybody |
Everyone gets it right away |
Opportunity to work to articulate clearly |
No value in the content / no value in explaining the content |
Frustrated with someone who could but won’t (below potential, I want to but won’t)…
Frustrated with someone who could but won’t (below potential, I want to but won’t) |
Give others a pass |
Clearly expressing to them that their motivation needs to change |
Indulge narrative that protects their lack of effort |
Don’t know you are in the kiddie pool…
Don’t know you are in the kiddie pool |
Aware of your limitations |
Protected / can’t really hurt yourself / think you know everything and can do everything |
Have to face consequences / can’t do everything |
Splashing in the kiddie pool…
Splashing in the kiddie pool |
Deep sea diver |
Won’t drown |
Dangerous |
Frustrated with shallowness…
Frustrated with shallowness |
Sharing in the depths |
Able to see there is more |
Can’t swim / unable to handle |
Love…
Love |
Pleasure |
Selfless |
Self-gratifying |
Campus big shot…
Campus big shot |
Humble scholar who seeks the truth |
Intellectual |
Nobody |
Greed, power, dominance…
Greed, power, dominance |
Generosity, love, kindness, openness |
Nobility / leader / your way / winner |
Sucker / loser / weak / servant |