Category Archive

Don’t act

Act

Don’t get hurt

Get hurt / vulnerable / exposed

Coward

Forthright

Don’t have to do anything I don’t want to / comfortable

Not easy

Embarrassed (the excuse not to do or say anything or face what is underneath)

Nonattached / just appropriate

Free to think and do what I want

Responsible for words, thoughts, actions

Hateful silent communication

Open, straightforward, reality communication

Great weapon / powerful / Superman / rise above

Defenseless

Predator

Doesn’t bother anyone

Go getter

Always on the sidelines

Adored

Neglected

Under attack

Safe

Loved / cared for

Not cared for / neglected

Possessed / smothered / isolated / owned (weapons used to obtain ownership/rope in – flattery, pursuit, adoration, putting on pedestal)

Free to be

Frustrated because you have to explain everything to everybody

Everyone gets it right away

Opportunity to work to articulate clearly

No value in the content / no value in explaining the content

Frustrated with someone who could but won’t (below potential, I want to but won’t)

Give others a pass

Clearly expressing to them that their motivation needs to change

Indulge narrative that protects their lack of effort

Don’t know you are in the kiddie pool

Aware of your limitations

Protected / can’t really hurt yourself / think you know everything and can do everything

Have to face consequences / can’t do everything