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Invite ego death + |
Defend the ego at all costs |
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Have to hurt for a while |
Keep everything the same |
Cause ego death +
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Cause ego death + |
Coddle egos |
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Create intense discomfort |
No unpleasantness |
Free the soul to truly Love
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Free the soul to truly Love |
Imprison the soul |
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Hard and difficult and hurts |
Remains pleasurable never Loves |
Arrogant fighter
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Arrogant fighter |
Taking the highroad |
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Hold the line / last line of defense |
Allow abuse to continue |
Ambient abuse
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Ambient abuse |
Ambient love |
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Ego in charge / don’t have to surrender |
Love directs your life / surrendered |
Happy
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Happy |
Miserable |
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Always the center of attention |
No one is watching |
Protecting self by not feeling
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Protecting self by not feeling |
Exposing myself to pain and confrontation, left unprotected |
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Cutting myself off from life and God |
Accepting that life isn’t always easy and comfortable |
Focus on others’ mistakes / quick to criticize
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Focus on others’ mistakes / quick to criticize |
Accept where others are / question your judgments of others |
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Encourage others to learn and grow |
Not helpful at all / uncaring / foster mediocrity |
Able to offer critique
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Able to offer critique |
Nothing helpful to say |
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Sure / overestimating yourself |
Modest reserve |
Micromanage
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Micromanage |
Give space |
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You know what’s expected |
Total chaos |