Self-contained |
Scattered / easily triggered |
Self-absorbed |
Responsive to the world / caring |
Reestablishing and maintaining power and control over others…
Reestablishing and maintaining power and control over others |
Reestablishing and maintaining equality and respect |
Affirm your own value |
You are one among many |
Formidable credibility…
Formidable credibility |
Untrustworthy |
Limited |
So many options |
Honest (+)…
Honest (+) |
Never tell the truth |
People dislike honesty, so they see you as causing trouble / violent |
Get to see yourself as never causing trouble or discomfort |
Honest (-)…
Honest (-) |
Polite |
Free from lies / can express care when people need it |
Trapped in your lies / cruel to everyone |
Intrusive (-)…
Intrusive (-) |
Polite / refined |
Show care |
Cruelly indifferent |
There is no higher being (-)…
There is no higher being (-) |
God is everywhere and All |
We are the higher being / we are in control / the adults have left and we can have fun |
Have to answer to God in all things |
There is no higher being (+)…
There is no higher being (+) |
A higher power is mean to you/authoritarian |
Chaos / no one to turn to |
At least there’s someone |
Pleasure is who you really are (+)…
Pleasure is who you really are (+) |
You are not you when you have bad feelings |
Discomfort is a mistake / who you are is expensive |
Pleasure is an orientation / pleasure shows you how enlightened you are / discomfort is never your fault |
Shrunken self in control of everything / enlightened shrunken self…
Shrunken self in control of everything / enlightened shrunken self |
You have no say |
Manage and responsible for everything, including enlightenment, and you can’t be wrong |
God is in charge of everything and responsible |