If we are responsible for All, then….

If we are responsible for All, then we are responsible for All. For example, if I like the experience of disappointment, (and I know this because I experience disappointment a good deal of the time) then I have to have people in my world that are “disappointing me”. If no one is around, I can always disappoint myself!
As we practice, we have the opportunity to see our “favorites” and can work not to use anyone or anything as the incidental cause. From there we can just have our favorite experience on its own. Finally we can still all since we are and were responsible for the experience in the first place. We have choice. It is amazing how free we can become when we shift the responsibility from outside to ourselves.