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Frustrated with someone who could but won’t (below potential, I want to but won’t) |
Give others a pass |
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Clearly expressing to them that their motivation needs to change |
Indulge narrative that protects their lack of effort |
Don’t know you are in the kiddie pool…
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Don’t know you are in the kiddie pool |
Aware of your limitations |
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Protected / can’t really hurt yourself / think you know everything and can do everything |
Have to face consequences / can’t do everything |
Splashing in the kiddie pool…
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Splashing in the kiddie pool |
Deep sea diver |
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Won’t drown |
Dangerous |
Frustrated with shallowness…
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Frustrated with shallowness |
Sharing in the depths |
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Able to see there is more |
Can’t swim / unable to handle |
Love…
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Love |
Pleasure |
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Selfless |
Self-gratifying |
Campus big shot…
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Campus big shot |
Humble scholar who seeks the truth |
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Intellectual |
Nobody |
Greed, power, dominance…
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Greed, power, dominance |
Generosity, love, kindness, openness |
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Nobility / leader / your way / winner |
Sucker / loser / weak / servant |
Driven to care for others…
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Driven to care for others |
Take care of self |
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Compassionate and generous |
Leave others to their fates |
Violate boundaries of others…
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Violate boundaries of others |
Respect boundaries of others |
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Show affection |
Cruel and unloving |
Righteous indignation…
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Righteous indignation |
Nonjudgmental |
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Moral compass |
Amoral |
