Feel in control of your relationships |
At the mercy of others |
All by yourself |
In community |
Love is need …
Love is need |
I love you I do not need you |
The relationship matters / is essential |
The relationship is not essential to anyone’s happiness |
Love is being needed / the indispensable expert…
Love is being needed / the indispensable expert |
Free to be together |
You know your roles |
No infrastructure |
Power and control in relationship…
Power and control in relationship |
Messy / arbitrary / unpredictable |
One-way relationship |
Organic / human / love / ease |
All about power…
All about power |
Detached |
Invested |
Indifferent |
Damaged…
Damaged |
Healthy |
Interesting |
Boring |
Conflict motivation…
Conflict motivation |
Harmony motivation |
You drive what happens |
Never get to drive |
Expert…
Expert |
Know nothing |
Condescending |
Seeking to learn / humble |
No salient information …
No salient information |
Salient information |
All equal information |
Have to discern |
Salient / important / essential / vital …
Salient / important / essential / vital |
Unimportant / inconspicuous |
Not your opinion / Have to discern |
You decide / your choice |