Category Archive

Sadhana is stuffing bad feelings

Sadhana is facing whatever experience you have

Never have to change

Have to get okay with constant change / change occurs as a result of what you experience

Lunatic

Calm and sane

Feeling / caring

Unfeeling / indifferent

A script for everybody / just give me the script

People exist and respond

No surprises and you are in charge

Chaos

Feel in control of your relationships

At the mercy of others

All by yourself

In community

Love is need

I love you I do not need you

The relationship matters / is essential

The relationship is not essential to anyone’s happiness

Love is being needed / the indispensable expert

Free to be together

You know your roles

No infrastructure

Power and control in relationship

Messy / arbitrary / unpredictable

One-way relationship

Organic / human / love / ease

All about power

Detached

Invested

Indifferent

Damaged

Healthy

Interesting

Boring

Conflict motivation

Harmony motivation

You drive what happens

Never get to drive