Cripple Liberate Supportive Neglect
Insecure….
Insecure Self-respect Responsive Self-absorbed
Mediocre….
Mediocre Exceptional Realistic Dreamer
No agency / blank screen….
No agency / blank screen Generative / having a core Pleasing / gracious Bossy / hard
It’s personal….
It’s personal It’s not personal Committed / Invested Distant / Apathetic
Insulting….
Insulting Valuing / appreciating Being honest / assessing Obsequious
Dirty….
Dirty Clean Connected to the world Aloof and isolated
Pious….
Pious Unholy Cringing Vibrant
Timid….
Timid Bold Cautious Reckless
Accepting/taking in/imbibing/receiving….
Accepting/taking in/ imbibing/receiving Rejecting/ denying/dismissing Impressionable/spineless/dependent/gullible Independent/powerful/selfcontained