Codependent Independent Connected Isolated
Receptive….
Receptive Closed off Impressionable …
Cruel/mean/harsh/no love….
Cruel/mean/harsh/no love Kind/compassionate/soft/love Strict/disciplining/clear/caring Fawning/condescending/weak/enabling
Center of attention….
Center of attention Nonentity Vilified /Disgraced publicly …
The Three-dimensional Foursquare….
We have been working with the foursquare tool for many years now. It evolved from dichotomies to foursquares a decade ago. Now it is evolving further to aid in our uncovering and dismantling of our system. In order to build a foursquare, we must start by depersonalizing and objectifying the issue. This is done by using qualities we all can …
Crippled….
Crippled Healed Cared for Abandoned
Smother….
Smother Let be Involved Neglect
Good….
Good Evil Weak Powerful
Team player….
Team player Prima donna Nonentity Fulfilled
Self-sabbotage….
Self-sabbotaging Self-nurturing Team player Self-indulgent