Category Archive

Driven to care for others

Take care of self

Compassionate and generous

Leave others to their fates

Violate boundaries of others

Respect boundaries of others

Show affection

Cruel and unloving

Righteous indignation

Nonjudgmental

Moral compass

Amoral

Obedient

Rebellious / indifferent to authority

Resentment / controlled

Independent

Sadhana is stuffing bad feelings

Sadhana is facing whatever experience you have

Never have to change

Have to get okay with constant change / change occurs as a result of what you experience

Lunatic

Calm and sane

Feeling / caring

Unfeeling / indifferent

A script for everybody / just give me the script

People exist and respond

No surprises and you are in charge

Chaos

Feel in control of your relationships

At the mercy of others

All by yourself

In community

Love is need

I love you I do not need you

The relationship matters / is essential

The relationship is not essential to anyone’s happiness

Love is being needed / the indispensable expert

Free to be together

You know your roles

No infrastructure