The world appears to us as we choose to see it. Most of us see the world in binary terms, framing our experience in pairs of opposites. These pairs of opposites define and limit our perception by shrinking the world into a kind of template; that template in turn limits our choices and actions. Recognizing and dismantling this template is …
Sacrifice yourself….
Sacrifice yourself Preserve yourself Serve the situation Impose yourself on others
Sacrifice….
Sacrifice Hoard / grasp Scapegoat / abandon / discard Cherish / keep
Executioner….
Executioner Life saver Just / decisive Sentimentalist
Flatterer….
Flatterer Independent / stands up for self Appreciative Thankless / dismissive
Nonattached….
Nonattached Enmeshed Apathetic Appropriately engaged
Vindictive / has to have enemies….
Vindictive / has to have enemies Lets things go Holds others accountable Doormat
No core….
No core Inwardly grounded Flexible / adjustable Uncompromising / inflexible
Spiritual….
Spiritual Ordinary Psychotic Sane
Loving….
Loving Ruthless Pathetic Strong