| No love | Love and joy with others |
| Invulnerable | Committed to people who don’t love |
Accepted member….
| Accepted member | Outsider / interloper |
| Conformist / forsaking and abandoning self | Maintains integrity and sense of self |
Humility….
| Humility | Arrogance |
| Helplessness | Agency |
Defiant….
| Defiant | Listening |
| Knows own story | Played |
Prideful….
Prideful Modest Knows own value Self-negating
Put up with….
Put up with Hold accountable Patient / tolerant / understanding Judgmental / hardhearted / dismissive
Cave in….
Cave in Stand firm / stand up for self Receptive Defiant / obstinate
Flaky….
Flaky Awake / astute Lighthearted / light touch Heavy-handed / downer
Never your fault….
Never your fault Always blamed No impact / weightless Important
Disrespectful….
Disrespectful Respectful Tells the truth Flattering