Confessing Denying / taking no responsibility Splattering / humiliating yourself Standing up for yourself
Calculating / rigid….
Calculating / rigid Responsive / not filtering Prepared Caught out
Resentful….
Resentful Affirming Seeking justice Uncritical
Oppositional….
Oppositional Listens Speaks own mind Pacifies / placates
Immobile….
Immobile / stuck / inert Agile / dynamic Steadfast / committed Erratic / flighty / capricious
Wretched….
Wretched Learning and letting go Repentant Careless
Self-aggrandizing….
Self-aggrandizing Content to be small Realizing your talents Wasting your talents
Gossiping….
Gossiping Minding own business Sharing Can’t be bothered
Secure….
Secure At risk Dull Exciting
Disappointed….
Disappointed Satisfied Woken up Unaware / oblivious