| No recourse | Good options |
| No decision to make / clear path | Too many choices |
Fanatical….
| Fanatical | Reflective |
| Focused / knows path | Unresolved |
No love / no feeling….
| No love / no feeling | Intense feeling |
| Protected | Dangerous |
No love….
| No love | Love and joy with others |
| Invulnerable | Committed to people who don’t love |
Accepted member….
| Accepted member | Outsider / interloper |
| Conformist / forsaking and abandoning self | Maintains integrity and sense of self |
Humility….
| Humility | Arrogance |
| Helplessness | Agency |
Defiant….
| Defiant | Listening |
| Knows own story | Played |
Prideful….
Prideful Modest Knows own value Self-negating
Put up with….
Put up with Hold accountable Patient / tolerant / understanding Judgmental / hardhearted / dismissive
Cave in….
Cave in Stand firm / stand up for self Receptive Defiant / obstinate