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Inability to discern underlying foundation / only doing behavior modification |
Responding respectfully to a situation by listening deeply and learning at that level / acting appropriately on the physical plane |
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Getting by on the surface, which frees us from feeling anything |
Experiencing what’s under the surface, which isn’t always pleasant |
Critiquing….
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Critiquing |
Affirming unconditionally |
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Captious |
Supportive / encouraging |
Expert….
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Expert |
Ignorant |
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Dismissive |
Approachable |
Authority….
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Authority |
Ignorant |
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Authoritarian / condescending |
Amiable / equal |
Professional….
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Professional |
No boundaries |
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Insensitive / abrasive |
Personable |
Relaxed / at ease….
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Relaxed / at ease |
Authoritarian / oppressive |
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No hierarchy |
Hierarchical |
Good boundaries….
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Good boundaries |
No boundaries |
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Rigid / electric fence |
Relaxed / human |
Self-righteous / shocked….
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Self-righteous / shocked |
Accepting of self and others |
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Principled / sense of justice |
Amoral |
Exercising freedom….
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Exercising freedom |
Rigidly constrained |
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Reckless disdain for rules, decency, and others |
Disciplined |
Rebel….
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Rebel |
Acquiesce / brownnoser |
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Obstinate |
Serve the situation / respect hierarchy |
