Category Archive

Learner

Snotty / know-it-all

Stupid

Expert

Function at all costs / mission success is everything

No structure / no path / no plan

Obsessed with plan, goal / obsessed with recipe

Willing to adjust / agility / semper gumby – always flexible

Not knowing how to feel, within oneself or for others

Feeling with nonattachment what is within oneself and others

Living in a positive world / affirming / no negative feelings

Emotional splattering

Inability to discern underlying foundation / only doing behavior modification

Responding respectfully to a situation by listening deeply and learning at that level / acting appropriately on the physical plane

Getting by on the surface, which frees us from feeling anything

Experiencing what’s under the surface, which isn’t always pleasant

Critiquing

Affirming unconditionally

Captious

Supportive / encouraging

Expert

Ignorant

Dismissive

Approachable

Authority

Ignorant

Authoritarian / condescending

Amiable / equal

Professional

No boundaries

Insensitive / abrasive

Personable

Relaxed / at ease

Authoritarian / oppressive

No hierarchy

Hierarchical

Good boundaries

No boundaries

Rigid / electric fence

Relaxed / human