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Have repulsive relationships with everyone |
Harmonious relationships with everyone |
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No place to go / off the hook / control |
Invasive / smothering / vulnerable / something to lose |
Generous spirit
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Generous spirit |
Exploitative / using others / seeking advantage |
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Taken advantage of |
Never get played |
Abandons
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Abandons |
Remains true |
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No strings |
Have to honor commitment |
Creative
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Creative |
Pedestrian |
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Chaotic / sloppy |
Disciplined / steady / orderly |
Transmission is non-verbal
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Transmission is non-verbal |
Words and concepts convey everything |
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Transmission is exquisitely rare and hard to even see and take in |
Everything is easy and accessible |
Insecure
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Insecure |
Comfortable in your own skin / confident / self assured |
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Sensitive / self-aware / unappreciated / unnoticed |
Arrogant / smug / condescending / self satisfied |
Be prepared
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Be prepared |
Procrastinate |
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Unexciting |
Heroic and exciting |
Childish
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Childish |
Childlike curious full of wonder innocent nonattachment egoless |
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Get to act out any way you want |
Have to obey the rules |
Handling the situation
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Handling the situation |
Not in control / not in charge |
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Using cruelty, lying, and any other “tool” or “strategy |
Kind and being honest |
Willingness not to please the demoralizer / not kowtowing to the insecure
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Willingness not to please the demoralizer / not kowtowing to the insecure |
Forsake and cave in to please others |
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You get punished |
Avoid abuse |