Transmission is non-verbal |
Words and concepts convey everything |
Transmission is exquisitely rare and hard to even see and take in |
Everything is easy and accessible |
Insecure
Insecure |
Comfortable in your own skin / confident / self assured |
Sensitive / self-aware / unappreciated / unnoticed |
Arrogant / smug / condescending / self satisfied |
Be prepared
Be prepared |
Procrastinate |
Unexciting |
Heroic and exciting |
Childish
Childish |
Childlike curious full of wonder innocent nonattachment egoless |
Get to act out any way you want |
Have to obey the rules |
Handling the situation
Handling the situation |
Not in control / not in charge |
Using cruelty, lying, and any other “tool” or “strategy |
Kind and being honest |
Willingness not to please the demoralizer / not kowtowing to the insecure
Willingness not to please the demoralizer / not kowtowing to the insecure |
Forsake and cave in to please others |
You get punished |
Avoid abuse |
Demoralize
Demoralize |
Uplift |
Set the standards |
Indiscriminately positive |
Banish
Banish |
Welcome / embrace |
In control of narrative |
Your system doesn’t get to be the last word |
Demoralization
Demoralization |
Uphold agency |
Have no conflict and no responsibility |
Have shared responsibility to work things out |
Unwanted
Unwanted |
Wanted |
Independent |
Smothered |