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Conflict motivation |
Harmony motivation |
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You drive what happens |
Never get to drive |
Expert…
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Expert |
Know nothing |
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Condescending |
Seeking to learn / humble |
No salient information …
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No salient information |
Salient information |
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All equal information |
Have to discern |
Salient / important / essential / vital …
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Salient / important / essential / vital |
Unimportant / inconspicuous |
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Not your opinion / Have to discern |
You decide / your choice |
Fascinated with conflict …
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Fascinated with conflict |
Harmony is more satisfying |
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Always entertained |
Bored with conflict |
Crush into submission …
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Crush into submission |
Encourage others to flourish as themselves |
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Listened to |
People have their own agency |
Wearing down with endless information…
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Wearing down with endless information |
Succinct |
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Have your say |
Cut short |
Wedded to conflict…
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Wedded to conflict |
Seeking harmony |
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Intimacy through argument |
Nothing connects us |
Stubborn…
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Stubborn |
Adaptable |
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Determined |
Weak-willed |
Beleaguering…
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Beleaguering |
Uplifting / let people be where they are |
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Know where people should be |
Naïve in assuming the best |
